月份: 2021 年 6 月

Death 死亡

What causes death?

Are “Living Wills” available where you live?

Are there special rites or ceremonies performed when a person dies?

Are you afraid of death?

Do you believe in life after death?

Do you often think of death?

Do you think that there is anything worth dying for?

Do you want to know the date of your death? Why or why not?

How do you cope with the death of someone special?

Is organ donation or transplants an option where you live?

Is physician assisted suicide an option in your country?

Would you consider physician assisted suicide if you were suffering a painful dying experience?

Is the death of a loved one considered a joyful or a sorrowful occasion?

Is there any person you would die for in order to save? Who is it?

What are some ways which you can help a family which has just experienced the death of a family member.

What should you say to someone who has lost a loved one?

What are your beliefs pertaining to a person’s soul once they have died?

What do you think of suicide?

What do you think would happen if there were no death for human beings?

What do you think would happen if people never died?

What happens to a person’s remains after death? Cremation? Burial? Etc.

What is the mourning process?

What is the mourning process?

Where do we go when we die?

Would you want your cremated remains to be part of a fireworks show?

Who do you think would mourn for you after your death?

If you were on death row, what would you request for your last meal?

Who would you want to watch you be executed?

If you could choose how you were going to die, what would you choose your death to be?

What do you think of cryogenics?

Would you like to have your body frozen, so that you could be thawed out and brought back to life sometime in the future?

Do you think it will ever be possible?

If you had the option of freezing your body in hopes that science would some day be able to bring you back to life, would you do it?

Why are so many people afraid of death, when it is unavoidable?

What would happen if you died?

On account of your beliefs or some other reason, do you look forward to dying?

Have you ever had to put a pet to sleep?

Do you believe that you will be born again?

Why is facing death a difficult experience?

How does a person cope with death of a friend or loved one?

What are some reactions to death of a friend?

How do your national customs surrounding death reflect the values of your country?

What should you say or not say to a friend who is facing death?

What should you say or not say to a friend who has lost a friend?

What are funerals like in your country?

What are some funeral customs in your country?

What is the suicide hotline in your community?

Is there a suicide hotline in the area where you live?

Do you know someone who has died from a traffic accident?

Do you know someone who has died from a from disease?

What was your reaction?

How did you feel?

When have you visited a hospital?Who did you visit?

What sights, smells, sounds did you notice when you visited the hospital?

  • How did you feel about your visit?

How can you help someone who is dying?How do you tell someone that someone they know has died?What are some useful euphemisms for telling someone that someone they know has died?

  • What are some other words for death? An example is “passed away”.

Do you believe in God?Do you think people should be cremated or buried?Has anyone close to you ever passed away?What is grief?Do you think the grieving process is different for different ages?Have you known someone who had an extended sickness before death?Have you ever lost someone close to you?Have known anyone who has committed suicide?

  • What would be your reaction?
  • What would you say to that person’s friends?

What is hospice?

  • Do you have hospice services in your country?
  • How quickly is someone buried or cremated after death?
  • What expenses are involved in burying or cremating someone?
  • What measures are taken in your country to ensure that no stigma is associated with the burial of poor people?

Are coffins displayed on the street entrance to funeral parlors in your country?Is it appropriate for funeral directors to advertise their services?

  • How can this be done?

If you were given the chance to have someone die with you, who would that person be?

  • How would you want to die?

Have you ever thought you’d like to die?How does it feel when your loved one dies and you were unable to see them for the last time?Have you ever been to a funeral where a family member of the deceased sung a song, read a letter or read a poem?

  • Have you ever done something like that at someone’s funeral?

Would you want to know if you were dying and if so, would you want to know how long you had to live?

  • Would you want to know the exact day of your death?

If there were five of your friends drowning, which one would you save first?If you are married or have a life partner would you expect them to move on after you die.

  • If so how long should they wait?

Do you have hospice services in your country?Do you know anyone who died for a few seconds or minutes but came to life again?

  • What do you think about the stories these people tell?

Who has died that you know?Have you had a pet die?What is the worst way of dying?What is the ideal way to die?Do you believe in out-of-body experiences?Are you afraid of losing one of your relatives all of a sudden?Would you like it if someone sung you a song or read a poem about you, or a letter to you, at your funeral?What kind of funeral arrangements would you make for yourself if you knew you were dying?How long do you expect you spouse or life partner to wait before they move on after your death?Do you have a bucket list?What happens when is embalmed?

Perhaps not a useful question, but it was submitted.Would you like to die?

Dating 約會

Describe a perfect date.

你可以講講看，什麼樣的約會是完美的嗎？

Describe the appearance of the person you would like to date?

你喜歡跟什麼樣外表的人約會？

Describe the character of the person you would like to date?

你想跟哪個角色約會？

Do you “go Dutch” when dating?

在約會的時候，你會幫你的另一半付錢嗎？還是你們是AA制

Is it usual for people in your country to ‘go Dutch’ if you go out together?

你們國家有請客文化嗎？

Do older girls/boys have a problem dating younger girls/boys?

老少配可以嗎？

Do you believe in love at first sight?

你曾經一見鍾情嗎？

Do you know what a ‘blind date’ is?

你有聽過相親嗎？

Have you ever been on a blind date?

你曾經相親過嗎？

Do you drive or take the train when dating?

你會開車還是坐火車去約會呢？

Do you have a boyfriend/girlfriend?

你有男女朋友嗎？

Where did you meet your him/her?

你怎麼認識你的另一半？

What does he/she look like?

他/她長什麼樣子？

Do you think fairy tales influence our choice of a partner?

你相信童話裡的愛情嗎？

Have you ever had a crush on someone?

你曾經愛戀過別人嗎？

Have you ever hated loving someone?

你是否曾經討厭談戀愛？

Have your parents ever disapproved of any of your relationships?

你的父母曾經反對過你們的戀情嗎？

How often would you like to go out on dates?

你多久約一次會？

How old were you when you had your first boyfriend or girlfriend?

你的初戀是幾歲？

Where did you go?

第一次約會去了哪裡？

What did you do?

第一次約會做了什麼?

Is there a such thing as a perfect relationship for you?

完美的戀情是怎麼樣呢?

If you could go out with anyone, who would it be?

如果你可以跟任何人約會，你想跟誰約會？

What are some popular places to go on a date?

哪裡適合約會？

What characteristics do you look for in a girlfriend or boyfriend?

你的男女朋友有什麼樣的特質？

What do you like to talk about when on a date?

在約會的時候，你會談什麼？

What do you look for in a girlfriend or a boyfriend?

你正在找男朋友或女朋友嗎？

What do you think most people talk about when dating?

你覺得約會的時候都在談什麼？

What kind of clothes do you wear on a date?

約會的時候會穿什麼衣服？

What was the most interesting date you’ve ever been on?

最有趣的約會是什麼樣子？

What would you consider “the perfect date” for you?

完美的約會是怎麼樣？

Would you mind if your boyfriend/girlfriend went out to party without you?

如果你的女朋友/男朋友去參加派對卻沒找你，你會怎麼樣？

Would you prefer to go out with a quiet or a talkative person?

你想要跟內向的人約會嗎？

At what age do you think that dating should begin?

你覺得幾歲時可以開始約會？

Do you think there is any age when a person is too old to date?

你覺得幾歲約會太老？

Does your first love still hold a special place in your heart? Do you believe that he or she will always have a special place in your heart?

你還記得你的初戀嗎？

What is your definition of love?

你對愛的定義是什麼？

Would you wait on a person you were dating for a long time if they joined the army?

你會擔心兵變嗎？

How about if they went to prison?

如果你的另一半去了監獄，你會怎麼做？

What do you think about dating a friend’s ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend?

你會想跟你的朋友的舊愛約會嗎？

Are there any superstitions on making someone fall in love with you?

你會想要用愛情魔法嗎？

Have you heard of any successful “love potions?”

真的有愛情魔藥嗎？

Can you control your partner by playing games?

在玩遊戲的時候，你會幫助你的另一半嗎？

When should you introduce your boyfriend/girlfriend to your parents? (when you begin dating, after you have been together for a while, only when the relationship is serious) Why?

你要怎麼介紹你的另一半給你的家人？

Do you like to have boy friend or girl friend in your school or in your classes?

你曾經跟班上同學談戀愛嗎？

How long does it take for dating to become a relationship?

從約會到戀愛要花多久的時間？

Is it important to be punctual in your first date? Why?

約會的時候要準時嗎？

What kind of place do you think is the ideal for a first date? Why do you think so?

哪裡適合第一次約會？

Do you think that age difference is important when dating?

你覺得年齡的差異重要嗎？

Would your parents have a problem if you married someone much older or younger than you? Would it make a difference if that person were rich?

你的父母能夠接受老少配嗎？

Do you like to flirt? If so, what do you usually do? Where? With whom? Why?

要怎麼調情？

Do you ever set your friends up on blind dates? If so, have you had much success?

你曾經相親過嗎？

Do you think blind dates are a good way to meet someone special? Why or why not?

你覺得相親可以找到正確的對象嗎？

Do you have any expectations for your partner?

What is a perfect date for you?

Do younger girls/boys have a problem dating older girls/boys?

Do you think some people know that they will fall in love with someone the first time they meet?

Where did you meet your him/her?

What does he/she look like?

How old were you when you went on your first date? Where did you go?What did you do? Who did you go with?

What kind of boy/girl do you like?

Do you think there is any age when a person is too old to date?

Does your first love still hold a special place in your heart?

Are you still in contact?

Would you like to see your first love again?

Do you believe that he or she will always have a special place in your heart?

How about if they went to prison?

Have you heard of any successful “love potions?”

Have you ever returned a gift to your boyfriend or girlfriend and later find out that he has given it to his/her new mate?

When should you introduce your boyfriend/girlfriend to your parents?

When you begin dating.

After you have been together for a while.

Only when the relationship is serious?

Why?

What kind of place do you think is the ideal for a first date? Why do you think so?

Do you think that age difference is important when dating?

Do you consider withholding information from your significant other lying?

Should you sleep with your friends?

Do you like to have boyfriend or girlfriend in your school or in your classes?

What do you think about internet dating?

Do you know anybody who does internet dating?

Have you heard of any successful relationships through internet dating?

Would you consider trying it yourself?

Have you ever met the man/woman of your dreams when you were on vacation?

  • About how many guests attended your wedding?
    • How many guests would you invite to your wedding?
  • At what age do most people in your country get married?
  • At what age do you want to get married?
    • At what age did you get married?
  • Describe a perfect date.
  • Describe the appearance of the person you would like to date?
  • Describe the character of the person you would like to date?
  • Do women usually work after getting married in your country?
  • Do you “go Dutch” when dating?
  • Do you know what it means to ‘go Dutch’?
  • Is it usual for people in your country to ‘go Dutch’ if you go out together?
  • Do older girls/boys have a problem dating younger girls/boys?
    • Do younger girls/boys have a problem dating older girls/boys?
  • Do you believe in love at first sight?
    • Do you think some people know that they will fall in love with someone the first time they meet?
  • Do you know what a ‘blind date’ is?
  • Have you ever been on a blind date?
  • Did you ever arrange a blind date?
  • Do you drive or take the train when dating?
  • Do you get along with your in-laws?
  • Do you have a boyfriend/girlfriend?
    • Where did you meet your him/her?
    • What does he/she look like?
  • Do you know anyone who has had an arranged marriage?
  • Do you know someone who has gotten a divorce?
  • Do you know the difference between love and like?
    • Can you still love your partner and not like him/her?
  • Do you think a boy should pay for everything on a date?
  • Do you think arranged marriages are a good idea? Why or why not?
    • What is your opinion of arranged marriages?
  • Do you think fairy tales influence our choice of a partner?
  • Do you think getting married means giving up freedom?
  • Do you think if you get married that you will change?
  • Do you think it is better to be single or to be married?
  • Do you think it is good to get married?
  • Do you think it is okay for a couple to live together before getting married? Why or Why not?
  • Do you think it is okay to marry someone of a different race?
  • Do you think it is okay to marry someone with a different religion?
  • Do you think it’s OK for a man to have two wives?
  • Do you think it’s OK for a wife to have two husbands?
  • Do you think it’s okay for a man to have a mistress?
  • Do you think it’s okay for a man to hit his wife?
  • Do you think love is necessary to have a good marriage?
  • Do you think marriage is necessary?
  • Do you think marriages based on love are more successful than arranged marriages?
  • Do you think marriage is very stressful for women? How about for men?
  • Do you think people change after getting married?
  • Do you think religion influences marriage? If so, in what ways?
  • Do you think that all adults should be married?
  • Do you think that you can you find eternal love through the Internet?
  • Do you want a husband or wife who is older, younger or the same age as you?
  • Do you want to have children?
    • If so, how many?
  • Have you ever been to a school dance?
  • Have you ever had a crush on someone?
  • Have you ever hated loving someone?
  • Have your parents ever disapproved of any of your relationships?
  • How long do you think couples should know each other before they get married?
  • How many children would you like to have?
  • How often would you like to go out on dates?
  • How old were you when you had your first boyfriend or girlfriend?
  • How old were you when you went on your first date?
    • Where did you go?
    • What did you do?
    • Who did you go with?
  • How old were your parents when they got married?
  • If your husband or wife has an affair what would you do?
  • If your parents did not approve of a person you loved and wanted to marry, would that be a difficult situation for you? Why or why not?
  • Is going out on dates important for you?
  • Is there a such thing as a perfect relationship for you?
  • If you could go out with anyone, who would it be?
  • If you are a man, and a woman asks you for a date, do you feel you should pay, or that the woman should pay?
  • If you had to marry either a poor man whom you really loved, or a rich man whom you did not love, which would you choose?
  • If you had to choose to live with someone who truly loves you but you don’t love him back or to live alone for a rest of your life loving someone that doesn’t love you who would you choose?
  • What advice would you give to someone whose partner hates their best friend?
  • What age do you think is best for getting married?
  • What are some dating and marriage customs in your country?
  • What are some of the main reasons people get divorced?
  • What are some popular places to go on a date?
  • What are some qualities that you think are important in a spouse or partner?
  • What characteristics do you look for in a girlfriend or boyfriend?
  • What do you consider cheating in a dating relationship?
  • What do you like to talk about when on a date?
  • What do you look for in a girlfriend or a boyfriend?
  • What do you think most people talk about when dating?
  • What do you think of people who get divorced?
    • Would you ever consider getting divorced?
  • What do you think of same-sex marriages?
  • What do you think of single mothers?
  • What is a wedding ceremony like in your country?
  • What is the best way to keep your spouse happy in the marriage?
  • What kind of boy or girl do you like?
  • What kind of clothes do you wear on a date?
  • What kind of man do you want as a husband?
  • What kind of person do you want to get married to?
  • What kind of woman do you want as a wife?
  • What makes a good husband/wife?
  • What makes a happy marriage?
    • What do you think are some things that contribute to a successful marriage?
  • What qualities are important to you in a boyfriend or girlfriend?
  • What qualities in a partner are important to you?
  • What was the most boring date you’ve ever been on?
  • What was the most interesting date you’ve ever been on?
  • What would you consider “the perfect date” for you?
  • What would you do if your soon to be mother-in-law seems to hate you?
  • What would your parents think if you don’t get married?
  • When did your parents get married?
  • Where do you want to go for your honeymoon?
    • Where did you go for your honeymoon?
  • Where do you want to go on your honeymoon?
  • Where is a good pace to go on a date in this town?
  • Where would you like to go on a date?
  • Which is more important for you, your job or your marriage?
  • Why do people break up with their partners?
  • Will you continue working after you get married?
  • Would you date someone you really liked if your parents did not like him or her?
  • Would you ever marry someone who has been divorced twice?
  • Would you introduce your date to your family?
  • Would you live with your parents after you get married?
  • Would you marry someone from another country?
  • Would you marry someone ten years older than you? How about ten years younger than you?
  • Would you marry someone that your parents didn’t like?
  • Would you marry someone who couldn’t speak the same language as you speak?
  • Would you mind if your boyfriend or girlfriend went out to party without you?
  • Would you prefer to go out with a quiet or a talkative person?
  • At what age do you think that dating should begin?
    • Do you think there is any age when a person is too old to date?
  • Do you know a happily married couple?
  • Can you name a famous happily married couple?
  • What do you think is the most important ingredient in a good marriage?
  • How long is the marriage ceremony in your country?
  • Who designed the marriage covenant?
  • What do you think about dating a friend’s ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend?
  • Does your first love still hold a special place in your heart?
    • Do you believe that he or she will always have a special place in your heart?
  • What qualities do you look in your partner?
  • Do you think its possible to wait for the man or woman you love while he or she is in jail?
  • What is your definition of love?
  • Would you wait on a person you were dating for a long time if they joined the army?
    • How about if they went to prison?
  • What is the best season to get married?
  • Do you know anybody who has two families at the same time and supports them both?
  • How many families can you have in your country?
  • Are there any superstitions on making someone fall in love with you?
    • Have you heard of any successful “love potions?”
  • Have you ever returned a gift to your boyfriend or girlfriend and later find out that he has given it to his or her new mate?
  • Do you know of any superstitions connected with weddings?
  • Would it be important for you to have a “white wedding dress’?
  • Can you control your partner by playing games?
  • Why do you think the bride’s maids wear white.
  • When should you introduce your boyfriend or girlfriend to your parents?
    • When you begin dating
    • After you have been together for a while
    • Only when the relationship is serious?
    • Why?
  • Do you like to have boy friend or girl friend in your school or in your classes?
  • Do you think it is right to continue seeing a person if he has not introduced you to his family yet?
  • In your opinion is marriage for life?
    • Do you think when people get married it is really until death?
  • How long does it take for dating to become a relationship?
  • Is it important to be punctual in your first date? Why?
  • Would you dress up for a first date? What clothes would you wear?
  • What kind of place do you think is the ideal for a first date? Why do you think so?
  • What are your country’s norms or laws on displays of public affection?
    • Do you think it is okay for couples to kiss in public?
  • How would you feel if your boyfriend liked to keep company with a female friend when you’re not there?
  • How would you feel if your girlfriend liked to keep company with a male friend when you’re not there?
  • If you could go back to your past love, and change what went wrong, who would it be?
  • Who do you love?
  • If you had to choose to live with someone who truly loves you but you don’t love him back or to live alone for a rest of your life loving someone that doesn’t love you what would you choose?
  • What would you change, if you are given only one chance to do it ?
  • Whose heart did you break most ? Did you apologize from him\her ?
  • Have you ever met someone you love a lot but never expressed it?
  • If your parents forced you to get married with a person who you don’t love, what would you do in this situation?
  • If your boyfriend/girlfriend dated another person, then he/she wanted to return and date you, would you date again?
  • If your boyfriend/girlfriend dated your close friend, what would you do?
  • Do you believe that having a permanent love between two person who are living in two different countries is possible?
  • Do you want your husband to know how you looked as a child? Why or why not?
  • Do you believe in love at first sight or love after the first night?

International Marriage

  • Would you marry someone of another nationality?
  • Are your parents of the same nationality?
  • What are some advantages of an international marriage?
  • What are some disadvantages?
  • Do you want to have an international marriage?
  • Do you know anyone who married someone from a different country? If yes, what is their experience like?
  • Do you think it is more difficult to marry someone from a different country?
  • How would your parents feel if you married someone from a different country?
  • Do you think that it is good for children to have parents from two different countries? Why? Why not?

The following question may be considered inappropriate in some situations.

  • Do you think that gay people should be allowed to marry?